Showing posts with label Gay Christians. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay Christians. Show all posts
01 February 2017
HOUSE BILL 1386: House Human Services Hearing
HOUSE HUMAN SERVICES COMMITTEE, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 1, 2017
HOUSE BILL 1386: Relating to prohibition of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation
Please include with the Committee Hearing testimony journal for public record
Chair Robin Weisz, Vice Chair Karen M. Rohr, Members of the 2017 House Human Services Committee, and fellow citizens of North Dakota, Greetings. My name is Kevin R. Tengesdal, and as a citizen of North Dakota, I resolutely request a unanimous DO PASS on House Bill 1386 as presented.
01 October 2016
Which Gospel
Friends, in the name of Christ, Greetings.
Here in 2016, the rally cries are loud and persistent. "Make America great again!" "Bring God back to our nation!" "We need Christian leaders!" Fundamentalists will have us to believe that we are a heathen nation heading to hell in a hand-basket. Yet, for many continuous years, a vast majority of our policy makers and shakers proudly wear the Christian moniker, often with an (R) attached to their name.
The American Christian Fundamentalism sect is just over a hundred years old. In the grand scheme of the ancient two-thousand years history of the Christian faith, it is but a newborn. Judaism, of which Jesus the Christ lived, originates in an Eastern philosophical mindset, completely foreign to a Western mindset. To me, the ACF too often carries itself as if it were a cult.
Lucy Patrick has commented: "Although we live in a democracy, cult behavior manifests itself in our unwillingness to question the judgment of our leaders, our tendency to devalue outsiders and to avoid dissent. We can overcome cult behavior, he says, by recognizing that we have dependency needs that are inappropriate for mature people, by increasing anti-authoritarian education, and by encouraging personal autonomy and the free exchange of ideas." [ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cult]
From the vantage point of evangelical Christianity, one definition might be: A cult is a perversion of the gospel, based upon an unholy devotion to a person, a principle, or both.
"Cult behavior reflects the wish for a loving, accepting sibling group that is protected and cherished by a powerful, omnipotent parent. The problem with such a wish and its accompanying fantasy is that no human being can fill the role of the superparent, and adults can never again be children. To preserve the fantasy, reality must be distorted, because of this distortion, cult behavior results in a loss of realism." For many, the ACF was "initially very warm and loving, until it would reveal its cold, punitive side whenever someone questioned the [ACF] beliefs or behavior. Such dissent was labeled “selfish” or “evil,” and group approval was withdrawn and the dissenter isolated." [http://www.deikman.com/former.html]
It's as if the ACF wants God to fit in their definition of Him, and want to challenge any who dare to believe any different. How is it that they know that their infant belief system is greater than the whole history of the Christian religion? How is it that any other faith practice is deemed inferior?
God's grace and mercy is a mysterious gem with a myriad of unique facets waiting to be discovered. The hard-lined interpretation of the Bible should not be worshipped. The living Word of God is he who we are to emulate and follow. A strict literal following of Scripture by the ACF puts them in contrast to the compassion and welcome that Christ has asked us to share.
The Apostle Paul aptly reminds us, in the book of Galatians, "I am shocked that you are turning away so soon from God, who called you to himself through the loving mercy of Christ. You are following a different way that pretends to be the Good News, but is not the Good News at all. You are being fooled by those who deliberately twist the truth concerning Christ."
I am but another mere human with countless flaws, seeking to please God alone, following his grace. My question to followers within the ACF, which gospel is your life showing to the world? Would the world see Jesus the Christ in your condemnations, your judgements, your demanding conformity?
For now,
Kevin R. Tengesdal
Here in 2016, the rally cries are loud and persistent. "Make America great again!" "Bring God back to our nation!" "We need Christian leaders!" Fundamentalists will have us to believe that we are a heathen nation heading to hell in a hand-basket. Yet, for many continuous years, a vast majority of our policy makers and shakers proudly wear the Christian moniker, often with an (R) attached to their name.
The American Christian Fundamentalism sect is just over a hundred years old. In the grand scheme of the ancient two-thousand years history of the Christian faith, it is but a newborn. Judaism, of which Jesus the Christ lived, originates in an Eastern philosophical mindset, completely foreign to a Western mindset. To me, the ACF too often carries itself as if it were a cult.
Lucy Patrick has commented: "Although we live in a democracy, cult behavior manifests itself in our unwillingness to question the judgment of our leaders, our tendency to devalue outsiders and to avoid dissent. We can overcome cult behavior, he says, by recognizing that we have dependency needs that are inappropriate for mature people, by increasing anti-authoritarian education, and by encouraging personal autonomy and the free exchange of ideas." [ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cult]
From the vantage point of evangelical Christianity, one definition might be: A cult is a perversion of the gospel, based upon an unholy devotion to a person, a principle, or both.
"Cult behavior reflects the wish for a loving, accepting sibling group that is protected and cherished by a powerful, omnipotent parent. The problem with such a wish and its accompanying fantasy is that no human being can fill the role of the superparent, and adults can never again be children. To preserve the fantasy, reality must be distorted, because of this distortion, cult behavior results in a loss of realism." For many, the ACF was "initially very warm and loving, until it would reveal its cold, punitive side whenever someone questioned the [ACF] beliefs or behavior. Such dissent was labeled “selfish” or “evil,” and group approval was withdrawn and the dissenter isolated." [http://www.deikman.com/former.html]
It's as if the ACF wants God to fit in their definition of Him, and want to challenge any who dare to believe any different. How is it that they know that their infant belief system is greater than the whole history of the Christian religion? How is it that any other faith practice is deemed inferior?
God's grace and mercy is a mysterious gem with a myriad of unique facets waiting to be discovered. The hard-lined interpretation of the Bible should not be worshipped. The living Word of God is he who we are to emulate and follow. A strict literal following of Scripture by the ACF puts them in contrast to the compassion and welcome that Christ has asked us to share.
The Apostle Paul aptly reminds us, in the book of Galatians, "I am shocked that you are turning away so soon from God, who called you to himself through the loving mercy of Christ. You are following a different way that pretends to be the Good News, but is not the Good News at all. You are being fooled by those who deliberately twist the truth concerning Christ."
I am but another mere human with countless flaws, seeking to please God alone, following his grace. My question to followers within the ACF, which gospel is your life showing to the world? Would the world see Jesus the Christ in your condemnations, your judgements, your demanding conformity?
For now,
Kevin R. Tengesdal
Realms:
Faith,
Gay Christians,
Letter,
Rambles,
Thoughts
19 December 2015
Letters to the Editor
A few "Letters to the Editor" I have written...
Realms:
Gay Christians,
Letter,
Letters to the Editor,
LGBTQ,
Thoughts
11 October 2015
The Testimony -- Oct 11, 2015
On a warm March day in 1988, there I was, a young 22-year old adventurer, standing alone on a sidewalk under the San Diego sun waiting for a bus. The Navy had just terminated my short career in the military by giving me an honorable discharge, and two intimidating military police unceremoniously escorted me off the base. Riding the bus to the airport as a rebranded civilian, I was ruminating and wondering who I was, where I was from, where I was going. A new chapter was starting in a journey, which began on a small-grains farm in North Dakota.
Realms:
Faith,
Gay Christians,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Testimony
17 July 2015
God is Still in Control
Same-sex attractions and love have been throughout the course of world history. Today, we have become a religion worshiping scripture heralding the exclamation of "But the Bible says, or does not say..." as the primary modus operandi in which to judge someone different than us.
Realms:
Faith,
Gay Christians,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Thoughts
06 April 2015
Rambling Journal Entry #150406
Rambling Journal Entry #150406: I think there might a point or a question to this lengthy rambling, hope you can find it.
02 April 2015
My Life is An Open Book Ramble #150402
My Life is An Open Book Ramble #150402: May I come clean, come out, and let you know the truth of the matter, the truth of my psyche? If not, please pass on, for the poop is about to get real and raw.
26 March 2015
THE GAY AGENDA
THE GAY AGENDA: A tax-exempt gay community center in every city in America, preferably more than one. Mass mailings to every household inviting new recruits to said centers. Insist on the word "GAY" on all money, and in every National Anthem. Recruit only gay politicians to run the country. Door-to-door knocking campaigns to let potential recruits know that your gay club is the only club to attend. Specific rituals and initiations to become a member of the gay club. Über Gay personalities on every television channel recruiting more people to choose to become gay. Gay literature in every motel room across the country. If your interpretation and presentation of gay is not the same as others, divide said clubs into more exclusive clubs.
23 March 2015
SENATE BILL 2279 House Human Services Testimony
HOUSE HUMAN SERVICES COMMITTEE
MONDAY, MARCH 23, 2015
SENATE BILL 2279: Relating to prohibition of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation
Chairman Robin Weisz, Vice Chairman Curt Hofstad, Human Services Committee members and fellow citizens of North Dakota, Greetings. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share my story this morning.
My name is Kevin R. Tengesdal, a native of North Dakota now living in Bismarck.
MONDAY, MARCH 23, 2015
SENATE BILL 2279: Relating to prohibition of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation
Chairman Robin Weisz, Vice Chairman Curt Hofstad, Human Services Committee members and fellow citizens of North Dakota, Greetings. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share my story this morning.
My name is Kevin R. Tengesdal, a native of North Dakota now living in Bismarck.
Realms:
Gay Christians,
Legislature,
Letter,
LGBTQ,
Life
08 March 2015
Rambling Rumination #150308:
So, Jesus met a woman. Even asked for a drink from her. Yes. A woman. Even more scandalous was that she was a Samaritan and he was a Jew.
13 February 2015
How I Remain Passionate
Published on Feb 18, 2015
Join
us as we talk to Jason Martozke, CHS Counselor, about supporting LGBTQ
youth and his upcoming ND Counselors Association conference. We also
talk with Rep. Joshua Boschee about SB2279 (which passed the Senate!)
and why it's important to LGBTQ North Dakotans and their families,
friends, and allies. Then we close the show with our series called
Strength Through Stories. This episode features Kevin R. Tengesdal of
Bismarck with "How I Remain Passionate."
The OUTLoud Podcast - Season 1, Episode 1
From the podcast, here is the text for the remarks that I shared:
02 February 2015
SENATE BILL 2279 Testimony
SENATE
JUDICIARY COMMITTEE
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2015
SENATE BILL 2279: Relating
to prohibition of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation
Chairman David
Hogue, Vice Chairman Kelly M. Armstrong, Members of the Committee, and fellow
citizens of North Dakota, Good Morning.
23 September 2014
Is being GAY a CHOICE?
My response after viewing this video: I know my story is not unique. When I was growing up in rural North Dakota in the '70s and '80s,
01 September 2014
Live Free
To every
person who has lived a life suppressing your own same-sex attractions
for fear of retributions from family, from society, from religion, from
politics, STOP suppressing and start living.
22 August 2014
Five Days of Self Appreciation
Mary Mitchell tagged me in a reflective exercise "Three things I Like About Myself, for Five Days." I am to tag three others each day to join along, if they wish.
Day One of Five, Monday:
Realms:
Faith,
Gay Christians,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Thoughts
16 August 2014
humbled and tumbled
hidden and timid
taunted and haunted
Realms:
Gay Christians,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Poetry,
Thoughts
03 August 2014
02 August 2014
Gratitude -- Seven Day Challenge
From Sunday, 27 July 2014 to Saturday, 02 August 2014...
Day 1 of 7: Challenge yourself to be grateful for three things, for seven days, and invite three friends to join you.
Realms:
Gay Christians,
Gratitude,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Thoughts
26 February 2014
Late Night Ramble #140226
It has been brought to my attention again
that it is upsetting with all the LGBTQ stuff on my page:
25 February 2014
Ranting Ramble #140225
Kevin, just realize the simple fact. It's plain ol'
political posturing, the actions of desperate heteronormative cis-gender
folk. |
Realms:
Gay Christians,
LGBTQ,
Life,
Rambles,
Thoughts
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